Pay close attention to what people measure, because it reveals everything about their intentions. Some people measure to ensure there is enough — enough for the table, enough for the team, enough for everyone to be taken care of. Their focus is abundance, fairness, and the well-being of those around them. But others measure for an entirely different reason — not out of concern, but out of comparison. They are not checking if you have enough; they are checking if you have more than them. Their ruler is not generosity, it is scorekeeping. Learning to tell the difference between these two types of people is one of the most valuable skills you can develop. Not everyone celebrating with you is celebrating for you. Be mindful of who is in your corner and why. The ones who measure to make sure you’re good are rare — hold onto them. The ones who measure out of envy will quietly become obstacles on your path. Watch what people pay attention to, and you’ll know exactly where you truly stand with them.
This is a profound GEM I stumbled across. It really goes to show that perspective and perception can mean a great deal.
